It is a rainy Saturday morning in Connecticut on April 16, 2011; a good day to make lentil soup and prepare for the Easter week ahead. Like many families, the kids are coming home for the holiday and thoughts of sandwiching myself between my two babies fills my heart with fun anticipation reminding me of just how blessed I am. It’s delightful to be planning a menu around their favorite dishes. As my thoughts turn to Crispy Coconut Chicken Dippers with Wowee Maui Mustard the doorbell rings.
Through the window are two men in uniform. My heart begins to race and before I say hello I ask, “Why are you here? He has been safely home from Afghanistan for 6 months. “ All I could do was invite them in, turn off the soup, wait for Bill to come home and hope to wake up from this nightmare. My head is spinning handing the military chaplain a photo album illustrating the last 5 years of William’s life and commitment to the Navy. The only sound comes from the front porch where the Navy and American flags are trembling in a rain of tears.
Cooking and baking are so very therapeutic. There is nothing like getting into the kitchen and banging a few pots and pans together to de-stress and express something from one’s heart. The food is about who I am, where I’ve been and those who inspire me. It’s a generous piece of me on a plate. Find something you are passionate about and just do it. Be inspired by the ones you love and the ones you’ve lost. Out of chaos comes creativity and our very survival depends on that.
As I am constantly tinkering with my recipes I rarely make the same thing twice. This recipe is an exception. After all it is one of my children’s favorites and won the “Kid’s Category” at the Southern Living Magazine Cook-Off in 2005.
Another beautiful and inspirational post, Lisa. I’m looking forward to every single one. I remember when this recipe won. So creative and yummy.
It really is a family favorite recipe. The dipping sauce is quite versatile and tastes good slathered on just about everything.
Our neighbors father passed away this week. Inspired by your words, Tracy is baking chocolate chip cookies to bring to their house.
Condolences to your neighbor and thank you for sharing my recipe which celebrates William’s life.
My dear Lisa,
Would you be willing to share – what things did people do for you that have been helpful? Perhaps your insights can provide guidance so that we can respond with sensitivity to others going through similar heartache (though I know that it is a different experience for each person, even within the same family).
Wendy
Yes, I am glad that you are asking this question as I have a future blog post to come that addresses these concerns–soon I hope